pre-marital counseling

Marriage, while exciting and full of possibilities, can also be a time of significant adjustment for couples. When the planning, preparation, parties, and celebrations of you as a couple have passed, what remains are the activities of daily “regular” life. Like after every significant event in one’s life, it is not unusual to encounter a let-down of sorts. This is normal. For some couples, this transition can be problematic, especially if the couple had experienced conflict before the wedding.

By seeking pre-marital counseling, you will have the opportunity to address the following issues:

  • Compatibility
  • Expectations
  • Personalities and families-of-origin
  • Communication patterns
  • Conflict resolution
  • Intimacy and sexuality
  • Long-term goals
  • Finances
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I will help you navigate these topics before and after the wedding and will empower you with the skills required to live harmoniously as a married couple. I can help you articulate your expectations, hopes, and dreams, for your newly joined lives. I will guide you to a pragmatic approach that encourages and prizes flexibility, fairness, respect, and the maintenance of your friendship.


20-min complimentary phone consultation


frequently asked questions

Premarital therapy is a form of counseling designed to help couples navigate the challenges and strengthen their relationship before getting married. It provides a supportive environment to address potential issues and build a strong foundation for a lasting marriage.
Ideally, couples should consider premarital therapy when they are engaged or thinking about getting married. It’s an opportunity to proactively address any concerns and enhance communication before tying the knot.
Sessions typically involve open discussions, assessments, and activities that focus on communication, conflict resolution, shared values, and future goals. The therapist will guide you through constructive conversations to strengthen your relationship.
The duration varies based on the couple’s needs and goals. Some couples may benefit from a few sessions, while others may choose a more extended program. The therapist will work with you to determine the appropriate duration.
Not necessarily. Premarital therapy is valuable for all couples, whether they are facing challenges or simply want to enhance their relationship. It provides tools and insights that can benefit couples at any stage of their relationship.
Look for a licensed therapist with experience in premarital counseling. Consider their approach, values, and whether you feel comfortable discussing personal matters with them. Personal compatibility is crucial for a successful therapeutic relationship.
Yes, many therapists offer virtual sessions, providing flexibility for couples with busy schedules or those in long-distance relationships. Make sure to discuss your preferences with the therapist when scheduling sessions.
Premarital therapy can be tailored to your preferences. Some therapists integrate religious or spiritual elements, while others focus on a secular approach. It’s essential to communicate your preferences with the therapist to ensure a customized experience.
While there are no guarantees, premarital therapy significantly increases the likelihood of a successful marriage by equipping couples with effective communication skills, conflict resolution strategies, and a deeper understanding of each other.
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